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SPIRITUAL HOMILIES THAT LIVE ON

A "HOMILY": An informal explanation of Scripture, usually offered by a Priest, Minister, Rabbi or other holy man.
The following homilies are reproduced here as providing much better than average information and inspiration for all of us.
GS.

WITH ATTENTION TO THIS, LIVING A GOOD LIFE IS REALLY EASY.

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Angelus Address: On the Great Commandment

The Catholic Church, by Rev. Joseph Castaldi (.pdf)

Jesus and Heaven, by Rev. Joseph Castaldi (.pdf)

THE TEN DAYS OF REPENTANCE, ROSH HASHANAH AND
YOM KIPPUR, SEPTEMBER 20 - 30.
These are the "holy of holies of Jewish time."
All Christians should take note as well, for the Jewish people are our elder brothers in Faith. This fact becomes crystal - clear by reading a remarkable article which appeared in WSJ Review, Sept. 16-17, 2017, pC3, entitled:
"The Challenge of Jewish Repentance" by Rabbi Jonathan Sacks.
The reassuring point is that its Theology could have been explained and embraced by a Catholic Priest or Protestant Minister.
Now if only Muslims could rid themselves of the cancer of murderous "Fundamentalism", then there would be real hope for world peace.
For, as noted in this fine article, "The real mystery is God's faith in us, not vice versa".

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The Challenge of Jewish Repentance
"COMPASSION, NOT PITY".
In sermons such as this, Pope Francis achieves his mission as Shepherd In Chief, not only of Roman Catholics, but of all good people.

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Santa Marta: Pope Urges Living Compassion, Not Pity
OFFERED BY REV. MARK O'DONNELL
Pastor, St. Joseph Parish, New London, CT

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If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault...
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John, 
"In the Beginning", God created man. He created him with Free Will, generally without the intervention of a "Deus ex Machina". 
And He created him responsible for his own actions. All well and good.
But then He created Eve...and the troubles began. 
So God provided some guidance, in the form of the Ten Commandments and the derivative Seven Deadly Sins. 
And man decided, among his co-created, to Experiment with those Ten Commandments and those Seven Deadly Sins.
 
How could man and fellow man survive in such an environment? Through Survival of the Fittest and through Cooperation, 
both approaches requiring Rules. And so began GOVERNMENT, RULES AND ABUSE OF THOSE RULES...all still under the
application of Free Will. And man has not changed since Adam was joined by Eve.
 
"WE HAS SEEN THE ENEMY...AND THEY IS US."
 
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"The Lord has turned all our sunsets into sunrise." — St. Clement

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"NO ONE, HOWEVER WEAK, IS DENIED A SHARE IN THE VICTORY OF THE CROSS. 
NO ONE IS BEYOND THE HELP OF THE PRAYER OF CHRIST."
 
ST. LEO THE GREAT.

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My Morning Offering

O Jesus, through the Immaculate Heart of Mary, I offer you my prayers, works, joys, and sufferings of this day for all the intentions of your Sacred Heart, in union with the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass throughout the world, for the salvation of souls, the reparation of sins, the reunion of all Christians, and in particular for the intentions of the Holy Father this month. Amen.

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IN RECENT WEEKS, OUR PASTOR REV. MARK O'DONNELL HAS TAKEN INSPIRATION FROM RECENT MASS READINGS TO GIVE US FURTHER GUIDANCE 
in how to conduct our human lives as we press on in our Immortal lives. That conduct is entirely Our Responsibiity in the use of our Free Will. It is not to be pursued with our expectation of having a "Deus Ex Machina" intervening at every turn. 
 
Presented below are Fr. Mark's recent homlies based upon those Readings. As you will see, Father brings the words of the Ancients to a very helpful 
Aggiornamento for the Here and Now.
 
Twenty-Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Twenty-Ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time
 
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THIS SHOULD BE THE GOAL OF ALL PEOPLE, ESPECIALLY OF IMMIGRANTS AND OF DESENDANTS OF SLAVES, WHO WANT TO MAKE A LIFE IN AMERICA.
 
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"The family, founded upon marriage freely contracted, one and indissoluble, must be regarded as the natural, primary cell of human society. The interests of the family, therefore, must be taken very specially into consideration in social and economic affairs, as well as in the spheres of faith and morals. For all of these have to do with strengthening the family and assisting it in the fulfillment of its mission." — John XXIII, Pacem in Terris -1963

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You can't go to heaven hating somebody. Forgive now. Be compassionate now. Be patient now. Be grateful now. Love Jesus and Mary now. Accept God's will now." — Mother Angelica

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"NO ONE AFTER LIGHTING A LAMP PUTS IT UNDER THE BUSHEL BASKET, 
BUT ON A LAMPSTAND, AND IT GIVES LIGHT TO ALL IN THE HOUSE.
IN THE SAME WAY, LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE BEFORE OTHERS, 
SO THAT THEY MAY SEE YOUR GOOD WORKS
AND GIVE GLORY TO YOUR FATHER IN HEAVEN". 
 
JESUS: in Matthew5:15-16. 

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CONSIDER THIS AS WE CONSIDER OUR ROLE...AND THE ROLE OF GOD...IN OUR CONDUCT OF OUR LIFE HERE ON EARTH.
 
God gave each of us the Great Gift of Free Will in the conduct of our human mortal life - before proceeding to our Immortal Life. 
Thus, and with rare exception, God stays out of our conduct of that human life after having given us the Ten Commandments, the Seven Deadly Sins and the Life of His Devine Son on Earth as guides to our personal actions. 
Thus, we should pray for guidance in our choices, decisions and actions. But we should not expect Divine Intervention or a "deus ex machina" at every difficult moment.
 
St. Thomas More must have had this in mind when he wrote:
"You must not abandon the ship in a storm because you cannot control the winds...What you cannot turn to good, you must at least make as little bad as you can".
 
Amen.
 
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CHRISTIAN OPTIMISM: THE REALISTIC APPROACH TO OUR HUMAN CONDITION.
 
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"Christian optimism is not a sugary optimism, nor is it a mere human confidence that everything will turn out all right. It is an optimism that sinks its roots into an awareness of our freedom, and the sure knowledge of the power of grace. It is an optimism that leads us to make demands on ourselves, to struggle to respond at every moment to God's call." — St. Josemaria Escriva

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April 8, 2024 Trump Statement on IVF and Abortion

Under my leadership, the Republican Party will always support the creation of strong, thriving and
healthy American families. We want to make it easier for mothers and families to have babies, not harder.
That includes supporting the availability of fertility treatments like IVF in every state in America. Like
the overwhelming majority of Americans, including the vast majority of Republicans, conservatives,
Christians and pro-life Americans, I strongly support the availability of IVF for couples who are trying to
have a precious baby. What could be more beautiful or better than that.

Today I’m pleased that the Alabama Legislature has acted very quickly and passed legislation that
preserves the availability of IVF in Alabama. They really did a great and fast job. The Republican Party
should always be on the side of the miracle of life and the side of mothers, fathers, their beautiful babies,
and that’s what we are. IVF is an important part of that, and our great Republican Party will always be
with you in your quest for the ultimate joy in life.

Many people have asked me what my position is on abortion and abortion rights, especially since I was
proudly the person responsible for the ending of something that all legal scholars, both sides, wanted and,
in fact, demanded be ended: Roe v. Wade. They wanted it ended. It must be remembered that the
Democrats are the radical ones on this position because they support abortion up to and even beyond the
ninth month. The concept of having an abortion in the later months, and even execution after birth — and
that’s exactly what it is. The baby is born, the baby is executed after birth — is unacceptable, and almost
everyone agrees with that.

My view is now that we have abortion where everybody wanted it from a legal standpoint. The states will
determine by vote or legislation or perhaps both, and whatever they decide must be the law of the land. In
this case, the law of the state. Many states will be different. Many will have a different number of weeks
or some will have more conservative than others, and that’s what they will be. At the end of the day this
is all about the will of the people. You must follow your heart, or in many cases your religion or your
faith. Do what’s right for your family and do what’s right for yourself, do what’s for your children, do
what’s right for our country, and vote. So important to vote. At the end of the day it’s all about will of the
people. That’s where we are right now, and that’s what we want. The will of the people.

I want to thank the six justices — Chief Justice John Roberts, Clarence Thomas, Samuel Alito, Brett
Kavanaugh, Amy Coney Barrett and Neil Gorsuch — incredible people, for having the courage to allow
this long-term, hard-fought battle to finally end. This 50 year battle over Roe v. Wade took it out of the
federal hands and brought it into the hearts, minds and vote of the people in each state. It was really
something. Now it’s up to the states to do the right thing.

Like Ronald Reagan, I am strongly in favor of exceptions for rape, incest and life of the mother. You
must follow your heart on this issue, but remember, you must also win elections to restore our culture and
in fact to have our country, which is currently and very sadly a nation in decline. Our nation needs help. It
needs unity, it needs all of us to work closely together. Democrat, Republican, liberal, conservative,
everyone. We have to work together. We have to bring our nation back from the brink, and that’s where it
is. It’s at the brink. And we will. We will do it. I promise you, we will do it.

Always go by your heart, but we must win. We have to win. We are a failing nation, but we can be a
failing nation no longer. We will make our nation great. We will make our nation greater than ever before.
Thank you very much.


My Response to Trump April 8 Statement on IVF and Abortion

On April 8, 2024, former President Donald J. Trump made an important statement on In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) and abortion.  Although the media did not really pick up on it, the initial part of the statement (see the full text attached), was devoted exclusively to Trump’s support for IVF.  While Trump’s purported goal to support strong healthy families and "to make it easier for mothers and families to have babies" is laudable, it is an axiom of ethics that the end never justifies the means.  IVF can never be morally justified or permitted, insofar as it involves the destruction of innocent human beings (embryos) and because it denies the natural right of a child to be conceived in the marital embrace of its mother and father. 


Trump did not cite any specific polling data, but if his assertion that the overwhelming majority of Americans supports IVF is true, I would say that the support is largely based on emotion rather than the result of a thorough examination of the complex ethical issues surrounding IVF. Simply put, IVF is not a morally acceptable means of promoting babies and families. (That being said, it is important to note that all children are made in the image and likeness of God, regardless of the circumstances of their conception.)

In his statement, Trump then launched into a “clarification” of his position on abortion.  He took credit for the overturning of Roe vs. Wade, which he said now shifts the issue of abortion entirely to the states and “the will of the people.”  He also expresssed his strong support for the exceptions of “rape, incest and life of the mother.”

I believe Trump accurately described the legal status of abortion today, which is eerily similar to that of slavery immediately prior to the Civil War.  His shift in messaging was clearly an effort to distance himself from the perceived political liability of taking an anti-abortion stance.  However, the current status quo of relegating an immutable human right to the “will of the people” is unsustainable.  It risks tearing the country apart and can only be resolved by recognizing, judicially and/or legislatively, the inherent right to life of every human being as the supreme law of the land.  (We are witnessing exciting developments that give us great hope that the recognition of constitutional personhood will come sooner rather than later.)

Trump’s statement on the “exceptions” could be an acknowledgment of political reality while opposing all abortions.  Or it could be a position that children simply do not have the right to life in cases of rape, incest or life of the mother.  Given Trump’s other comments on the topic, it sounds to me more like the latter.  What it means is that Trump supports the intrinsic evil of abortion in at least some situations.

Despite his purported deference to states’ rights, Trump criticized the abortion law that was upheld by the Arizona Supreme Court this past Tuesday as going too far.  That law is similar to laws in a dozen or so other states.  Trump has shown us very clearly that his policy positions on the right to life issue are driven by politics rather than principle. This is deeply disappointing given his words at the 47th Annual March for Life in 2020, "All of us here today understand an eternal truth: Every child is a precious and sacred gift from God.”

A candidate who compromises on fundamental moral values renders himself unfit for public office.  In the words of Pro-Life Leader Frank Pavone, “Every elected official on any level of government, who takes a position in which they fail to recognize and work for the protection of the right to life dishonors the very meaning of their office. Because you can’t be a public servant, if you fail to tell the difference between serving the public and killing the public.”

Yours for life,
Gerald (Gerry) Yeung


Let's start with what I believe. What i know is that the strong majority of voters in this country do Not believe in the above...and that they would vote down the candidacy of anyone who so declared,,,thus eliminating any chance for anyone to enter Government to try to change the status quo.  I myself believe that I lost the State Senate race in 1990 largely for being clear on Abortion,
 
Mr. Yeung is clear in his frustration with the above state of affairs. But he should give credence to the above state of affairs in this Democracy.
President Trump has no such problem. See his next-to-final paragraph of his own statement. 
 
If Mr. Yeung seeks more clarity and consistency, he should question the Cardinals of his and our Church. When is Joe Biden going to be Excommunicated?

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"It is suffering, more than anything else, which clears the way for the grace which transforms human souls. Suffering, more than anything else makes present in the history of humanity the powers of the Redemption."
— Pope St. John Paul II

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"It is part of the discipline of God to make His loved ones perfect through trial and suffering. Only by carrying the Cross can one reach the Resurrection." — Fulton Sheen

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"IT IS SAD AND WRONG TO MOURN THE MEN WHO HAVE DIED, RATHER WE SHOULD THANK GOD THAT SUCH MEN LIVED". 
GENERAL GEORGE S. PATTON, Jr.

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Why I Am No Longer an Atheist

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"WHAT THE WORLD NEEDS NOW IS LOVE, SWEET LOVE."

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Cabrini film a miracle in the making - Fra Noi

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AND MORE !                IT DOESN'T GET BETTER. 
 
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Fentanyl-laced marijuana has infiltrated the market: Risk-mitigation strategies for recreational use

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NOT THAT WE NEED ANY MORE EVIDENCE OF MAN'S INHUMANITY TO MAN...
but see the article in the March 3, 2024 edition of the NYTimes by Bodyagina and Kurmanaev 
entitled "Rancid Food, Barbaric Cold, Broken Psyches" - describing the conditions suffered by 
Aleksei Navalny and so many millions of others in Russia's Penal Colonies. 
 
Such Facts arouse our worst impulses toward humans like V. Putin...but to no avail.
It is only our health and equanimity that suffer from such reactions. 
 
We need but remember that it is God who gave us Free Will and God who promises to hold us to 
the exercise of that Free Will. ("VENGEANCE IS MINE. I SHALL REPAY". sayeth the Lord".  (Romans ll).
And meanwhile, it was The Lord Himself who was well aware of the capabilities of the humans around Him:
 
"But Jesus would not trust Himself to them because he knew them all, and did not need anyone to testify
about human nature. He Himself understood it well."  (John 2:13-25).
 
And we certainly don't want to know anything about who ends up in Hell. 
 
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I HAVE KNOWN NUMEROUS PRACTISING MUSLEMS, MAINLY THROUGH MY MEDICAL WORK.

They are good people, God-Fearing people. 

What is not compatible with a God-Fearing people is a Theocracy. 

What is even worse is a Theocracy that sanctions and encourages its members to KILL anyone who does not accept its Religion and its Theocracy as its own. 

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Nigeria experiencing a ‘silent genocide’ against Christians

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Simplicity (PDF)

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BESIDES THE BENEFITS AVAILABLE TO ROMAN CATHOLICS FROM AT LEAST WEEKLY PARTICIPATION IN THE HOLY MASS, 
THERE ARE THE WEEKLY READINGS IN ADDITION TO THE HOLY GOSPEL.
Those from St. Paul, the greatest convert to Christianity, are among my favorites. 
 
We all have the Ten Commandments to provide us with the bed-rock of our guidance as we exercise our God-given Free Will in this mortal life as we prepare for our immortal life - hopefully with God. 
What follows should be considered a critical expansion of that guidance.  GS.
 
A reading from the First Letter of St. Paul to the Corinthians (1 Corinthians6:13c....).
"Brothers and sisters: The body is not for immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord is for the body; God raised the Lord and will also raise us by His power.
   Do you not know that our bodies are members of Christ? But whoever is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit with Him. Avoid immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the immoral person sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? For you have been purchased at a price. Therefore glorify God in your body."
                                                         The word of the Lord. THANKS BE TO GOD.

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ALWAYS RELEVANT, ESPECIALLY IN TODAY'S WORLD. OR WAS IT ALWAYS SO?

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"Let us love the Cross and let us remember that we are not alone in carrying it. God is helping us. And in God who is comforting us, as St. Paul says, we can do anything." - St. Gianna Molla

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"BE PATIENT, BECAUSE THE WEAKNESSES OF THE BODY ARE GIVEN TO US IN THIS WORLD BY GOD FOR THE SALVATION OF THE SOUL. 
SO THEY ARE OF GREAT MERIT WHEN THEY ARE BORNE PATIENTLY.
 
ST. FRANCIS OF ASSISI.

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FOR CHRISTIANS, ONE OF THE BENEFITS OF ATTENDING WEEKLY HOLY MASS IS THE READING OF SELECTIONS FROM THE BIBLE...
generally including the Old Testament, the Letters of St. Paul and other Apostles, and Jesus' Words in the New Testament. 
 
The Readings for September 10, 2023 are particularly instructive for the Unequivocal Command coming from both God and from the Son of God.
In effect: I AM MY BROTHER'S KEEPER...no if's, and's or but's...an Affirmative Responsibility. 
"...I will hold you responsible for his death". 
 
For Jews, our older brothers in Faith, the message is the same. 
This is THE GOD OF MERCY. And He is also THE GOD OF JUSTICE: "VENGEANCE IS MINE. I SHALL REPAY, SAYETH THE LORD". (Romans, ll).
 
So: for practising Christians and Jews...see you on Saturday or Sunday.
For fallen away Christians and Jews...COME BACK!
And for those of other spiritual persuasions, Study their tenets. Compare and Contrast. Then Decide in Whose Embrace you want to spend this Human portion of your Immortal life...and then the never-ending remainder of that Life. 
 
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IT'S NEVER TOO LATE.
 
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Why I Am No Longer an Atheist

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"PEOPLE NEEDING PEOPLE"
"TOUCHING"...A VITAL NEED, AS EXPLAINED IN THE CLASSIC BOOK BY ASHLEY MONTAGU.
"IT IS NOT GOOD FOR MAN TO BE ALONE"...GOD'S EARLIEST COMMENT TO ADAM.
 
Another excellent offering by Dennis Prager, perhaps the modern William Shakespeare...in prose.
And check out the book he wrote in his earlier years: "Think Again". 
 
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Why Is Suicide at an All-Time High?

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THESE ARE NEITHER  "...THE BEST OF TIMES...."  NOR  "...THE WORST OF TIMES...."
 
For GOD CREATED Man in charge of his own Destiny: Immortal, with Free Will, capable of the greatest Good and the greatest Evil, and with the ability to choose Heaven or Hell for all Eternity.
 
What follows is a beautiful description of One Option. 
 
And then there is the other:  "Vengeance Is Mine; I Shall Repay"...Sayeth The LORD". (ROMANS II). 
 
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"If you are suffering from a bad man’s injustice, forgive him—lest there be two bad men."
- St. Augustine

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RELIGION AND MORALITY, IN ADDITION TO RIGHTS AND PREROGATIVES OF PARENTS, ARE IN THE CROSS-HAIRS OF THE WOKE, AS THEY SEEK TO DESTROY WHAT AMERICA STANDS FOR.
 
This is Standard Operating Procedure for any and all Totalitarian goals. 
 
See; "Michigan Judge Appeals to Americans For Morality Reform", by Dustin Bass (in The Epoch Times May 24, 2023, pC5). 
 
What are you Personally going to do about it?
 
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ONCE AGAIN,  "CHI MI LO FAR' FARE": WHO MAKES ME DO IT".
 
And again, it's mainly for myself - and also for the reader's benefit.
 
Today's ruminations rightly belong in this web-site's section entitled
"PHYSICIAN / PATIENT SPIRITUALITY", where you will find many others.
 
The topic today is EVIL, of which there is So Much around us. 
We could ask: WHY DOES GOD ALLOW THIS?
Or we could declare: THE DEVIL MADE ME DO IT. 
WRONG in both instances.
 
We could seek out perhaps more enlightened observers:
1) "Why Does God Allow Evil?", by E. Christian Brugger (in National Catholic Register May 7-20, p9). 
2) "Harold Kushner, Rabbi And Author, Dies At 88", by Emily Langer (in The Day Obituaries, May 6, 2023.).
Of these, I believe that the accurate answer comes from Rabbi Kushner, the author of "When Bad Things Happen To Good People". 
I also am convinced that God created Man with one great gift - FREE WILL , and that all human good and Evil result from the exercise of that Free Will.
 
It is not that God after the Creation became a passive observer. 
God has at least two measures of man's ultimate reward or punishment: 
Mercy / Forgiveness ; and "Vengeance Is Mine. I Will Repay". (Romans II).
 
Meanwhile, on our still-mortal level before we enter immortality, Forgiveness itself among ourselves is the medicine for many diseases afflicting us. 
See the excellent article entitled: "THe Secret Weapon for Mental Health: forgiveness", by Gregory Jantz ( in The Epoch Times April 26, 2023, pC1). 
 
So: Consider the above...and also limit your time following the News.
You will be a lot better for it.
 
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REMEMBER THE LITTLE CHILD'S PRAYER?  "JESUS LOVES ME, THAT I KNOW". 
It stays with us throughout our lives.
 
The holy Gospel according to Matthew (Matthew 5:13-16).
 
"Jesus said to his desciples: 'You are the salt of the earth. But if salt loses its taste, with what can it be seasoned? It is no longer good for anything but to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. You are the light of the world. A city set on a mountain cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and then put it under a bushel basket; it is set on a lampstand, where it gives light to all in the house. Just so, your light must shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your heavenly Father". 
 
The Gospel of the Lord.

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"Be patient, because the weaknesses of the body are given to us in this world by God for the salvation of the soul. So they are of great merit when they are borne patiently."

–St. Francis of Assisi

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Adrienne Johnson: Why I Am No Longer an Atheist

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Loneliness Speeds Aging More than Smoking

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"You can't go to heaven hating somebody. Forgive now. Be compassionate now. Be patient now. Be grateful now. Love Jesus and Mary now. Accept God's will now."

–Mother Angelica

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"Faith and reason are like two wings on which the human spirit rises to the contemplation of truth; and God has placed in the human heart a desire to know the truthin a word, to know himselfso that, by knowing and loving God, men and women may also come to the fullness of truth about themselves."

–Pope St. John Paul II

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Deuteronomy: Why It’s Hard to Love God

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ON DEATH AND DYING - THOSE OF OTHERS AND OUR OWN.  GOOD INSIGHTS. 
 
GS

Hidden Dangers of Pathologizing Grief
Vitamins & Cognition: Surprising Findings
The Heartache of Bereavement Can Be Fatal
Blood Type Linked to Stroke Risk
Empathy vs Sympathy in Managing Patient Grief
Patients Want to Talk Openly About Death
How to Ease Grief, Depression Remotely

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IRISH BLESSING
 
May the road rise up to meet you, 
        May the wind be always
                 at your back, 
        May the sun shine warm
                upon your face, 
             And rains fall soft 
             upon your fields,
        And until we meet again,
            May God keep you 
      In the hollow of His hand.

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GOD LOVES ME. THIS I KNOW.

Me:    God, can I ask You a question?
God:    Sure
Me:     Promise You won't get mad
God:    I promise
Me:     Why did You let so much stuff happen to me today?
God:    What do u mean?
Me:     Well, I woke up late
God:    Yes
Me:     My car took forever to start
God:   Okay
Me:    at lunch they made my sandwich wrong & I had to wait
God:   Huummm
Me:    On the way home, my phone went DEAD, just as I picked up a call
God:   All right
Me:    And on top of it all off, when I got home ~I just want to soak my feet in my new foot massager & relax. BUT it wouldn't work!!! Nothing went right today! Why did You do that?
God:   Let me see, the death angel was at your bed this morning & I had to send one of My Angels to battle him for your life. I let you sleep through that
Me      (humbled): OH
GOD:  I didn't let your car start because there was a drunk driver on your route that would have hit you if you were on the road.
Me:    (ashamed)
God:   The first person who made your sandwich today was sick & I didn't want you to catch what they have, I knew you couldn't afford to miss work.
Me    (embarrassed):Okay
God:   Your phone went dead because the person that was calling was going to give false witness about what you said on that call, I didn't even let you talk to them so you would be covered.
Me    (softly): I see God
God: Oh and that foot massager, it had a shortage that was going to throw out all of the power in your house tonight. I didn't think you wanted to be in the dark.
Me:    I'm Sorry God
God:   Don't be sorry, just learn to Trust Me.... in All things , the Good & the bad.
Me:    I will trust You.
God:   And don't doubt that My plan for your day is Always Better than your plan.
Me:    I won't God. And let me just tell you God, Thank You for Everything today.
God:   You're welcome child. It was just another day being your God and I Love looking after My Children...

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Secularism: The Age of the Absurd

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"The deeds you do may be the only sermon some people will hear today."
–St. Francis of Assisi

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"Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin."
–Mother Teresa of Calcutta

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ALL OF US, ALL GIVEN THE GIFT OF LIFE AND MUCH MORE BY OUR CREATOR, HAVE AN OBLIGATION TO "PAY IT FORWARD" IN SOME WAY.
 
GS

"Each of you knows that the foundation of our faith is charity. Without it, our religion would crumble. We will never be truly Catholic unless we conform our entire lives to the two commandments that are the essence of the Catholic faith: to love the Lord, our God, with all our strength, and to love our neighbor as ourselves."
–Blessed Pier Giorgio Frassati

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Steve Jobs’ last words (YouTube)

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With one million deaths in this country from the Pandemic - and counting, many of us have experienced this life-altering part of life. A vital part of surviving and growing from that experience is GRIEF.  Different from the long-lasting sense of Loss, Grief is more visceral and uncontrollable. And it cannot be "managed". It must be given vent for as deep and as long as it requires. The alternative can be long-lasting psychologic and physical injury for the person left behind. Now comes a related condition: "Grieving Before A Loved One Dies". Three articles in Medscape.com on these subjects are definitely worth your time. They appear in the editions on March 21 and 29, 2022.

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INTERESTING. LET'S TRY THIS OUT. 
But don't expect to hear a booming baritone. Just a little whisper that comes into your consciousness as you wait quietly. Very likely, THAT'S IT.  
 
GS

"Whenever I go to the chapel, I put myself in the presence of our good Lord, and I say to Him, 'Lord, here I am. Tell me what You would have me do.' If He gives me some task, I am content and I thank Him. If He gives me nothing, I still thank Him since I do not deserve to receive anything more than that. And then, I tell God everything that is in my heart. I tell Him about my pains and my joys, and then I listen. If you listen, God will also speak to you, for with the good Lord, you have to both speak and listen. God always speaks to you when you approach Him plainly and simply."
–St. Catherine Laboure

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WHAT CAN'T WE DO? WE CAN'T ALLOW PEOPLE TO DIE ALONE, ESPECIALLY IF THEY HAVE LOVED ONES AROUND.
 
GS

The Sadness of Dying Alone – What Can We Do?

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AMEN.
 
GS

Several years ago, I heard a very popular Christian speaker talk to a large audience for an hour. He said nothing heretical. He said nothing controversial. He just focused on the “unconditional” love of God. Again, nothing wrong with what he did say, but it is what he did not say that bothered me. He said nothing about repentance of sin. There is a reason Jesus said what he said in the above bible verse. And there is a reason John the Baptist introduced Jesus to the world with the exact same proclamation in Matthew 3:2: “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.”

There is a popular trend going on in the American Christian church. The trend is to talk of the love of God without talking about the justice of God. But if you read the Bible, it is clear, there exists both the grace of God and the wrath of God, and Jesus Christ spoke of both.

Many Christians around the world have been celebrating Holy Week this week culminating today with Easter Sunday or what some churches call Resurrection Sunday. It is to commemorate the victory of Jesus over Satan, sin, death and hell. This is good news! And “good news” is the meaning of the word “gospel.”

It is true that God’s love for mankind is “unconditional.” However, in order for man to be in right relationship with God, man must conform his life to match with God’s requirement of man. And God does not force this decision on man. God draws a person to himself, but it is the free will of the individual to decide if he or she will obey God’s requirements for a right relationship or not.

Jesus called this experience being “born again.” In other words, a person (every human) must understand that he or she has violated God’s laws and is forever separated from God spiritually unless he or she repents of their sin and trust in the shed blood of Jesus on the cross for forgiveness of that sin in order to be counted among those who have been redeemed. Redeemed from the consequences of unrepentant sin which is death and hell. What I am writing here in not popular in modern day America and where we want to live our own life without interference from God. It’s our natural tendency to live for ourselves instead of obey the commands of God. That is the eternal struggle between flesh and the spirit.

In order to prove our love for Christ, he says we must deny ourselves, pick up our cross daily, and follow him. Our “cross” is a challenge to wake up daily and try our best to live like Jesus. The way we learn to live like Jesus is to study the Bible, take time to pray and fellowship with other believers (followers) which we call “church.” God knows we will fail at this precisely because we are human. Sometimes we are tempted by sin and we give in to it. But the Bible also says that if we are willing to confess our sins to God, He is willing to forgive us. That also is great news!

No one is compelled to believe this. You may read this and call it foolishness. That is your right. But if that is your view, I at least encourage you to read one book in the Bible, the gospel of John, and consider the claims of the Bible and Christ before you dismiss Christianity.
To my fellow Christians, I say, “He is Risen!”
 
Tim Wildmon, President
American Family Association

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FROM: ISAIAH 43:16-21:
 
"Remember not the events of the past, 
    the things of long ago consider not;
see, I am doing something new!"
 
The word of the Lord. Thanks be to God. 
   
LET US ALL DO "SOMETHING NEW".
 
GS

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HERE IS ANOTHER "KEEPER" FROM ST. AUGUSTINE:
 
"WE ARE CHRISTIANS, AND STRANGERS ON EARTH. LET NONE OF US BE FRIGHTENED; OUR NATIVE LAND NOT IN THIS WORLD".
 
I'll have to study more about St. Augustine. He may be a Soul-Brother.
 
GS

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'WHAT THE WORLD NEEDS NOW IS LOVE, SWEET LOVE". 
 
Not serial "hook-ups" and one-night stands. 
Not marriages with no intention of having children...or even of being faithful to each other.
Not "...'til death do us part"; just until a better offer comes along. 
Not a world with hundreds of millions of aborted babies, and so many children raised in one-parent homes - or no parents. 
 
SO: WHAT IS LOVE? 
 
"Brothers and sisters: strive eagerly for the greatest spiritual gifts. But I shall show you a still more excellent way.
 
If I speak in human and angelic tongues, but do not have love, I am a resounding gong or a clashing cymbal. And if I have the gift of prophecy, and comprehend all mysteries and all knowledge; if I have all faith so as to move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give away everything I own, and if I hand my body over so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. 
 
Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, it is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 
 
Love never fails. It there are prophecies, they will be brought to nothing; if tongues, they will cease; if knowledge, it will be brought to nothing. For we know partially and we prophesy partially, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. When I was a child, I used to talk as a child, think as a child, reason as a child; when I became a man, I put aside childish things. At present we see indistinctly, as in a mirror, but then face to face. At present I know partially; then I shall know fully, as I am fully known. So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love."
 
The first Letter of Saint Paul to the Corinthians (1Corinthians 12:31 - 13:13 or 13:4-13).
 
GS

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"What does love look like? It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has eyes to see misery and want. It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men. That is what love looks like."
–St. Augustine

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"Trials, tribulation, anguish, anxiety are permitted by the very One Who gives peace."
Fulton Sheen

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THIS IS WISDOM.     WORK TOWARD IT WHILE YOU ARE AGING.

And Remember. Growing Older is a State of Body.      Growing "Old' is a State of Mind - and a Choice.

GS

Growing Bolder (PDF)

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“THESE ARE THE TIMES THAT TRY MEN’S SOULS”.

And who are these men and women?

God created Man in His Image and Likeness. And then He gave him the gift that makes man almost god-like: Free Will.

And what did man and woman do with that free will? They immediately disobeyed God in the Garden of Eden.

Actions have Consequences: God removed them from their birth-right. And we have been struggling to get back ever since.

But God is both Just and Merciful. He gave man ten very clear Commandments. “Thou shalt not…”

And what did man do? He killed his brother. Free Will in action.

And we have been struggling ever since.

God decided on a “Do-Over”: the Flood and Noah’s Arc.

Not enough. Then He sent his Son to show us the way back to Him.

What He did not do is to cancel our Free Will. That would have rendered us simple drones.

And God loves his creation too much to do that.

So here we are: human beings with Free Will, capable of the greatest good and the greatest evil. And we continue to tend toward evil, thanks to the efforts of the keeper of the final state of punishment for those who have earned it – Hell.

Remember: we have to Earn Hell. We cannot earn Heaven. Heaven is God’s gift to us, His creation…from the very Beginning.

Free Will equals Choice. Man has been making those choices since the beginning of Time.

And the results so far are not pretty.

GS

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Life is Like a Cup of Coffee

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SATURDAY and SUNDAY, December 4 and 5, 2021

CHANUKAH (HANUKKAH), THE FESTIVAL OF LIGHTS, IS BEING CELEBRATED NOW.
Although not Jewish, I a Christian have always considered the Jewish People my older siblings.
How can it be otherwise, by History and by Morality?

We all await the Coming of the Messiah - sooner rather than later, given the state of the world.
And whether it is the first Coming or the second Coming, we pray for that Coming.
Meanwhile, we live within the confines and potential of our humanity. We are reminded of those limitations by a poignant article: "The Roots Of Resilience", by Jared Cohen (in WSJ December 4-5, 2021, Books, C9). That worst anti-Semitic attack in U.S. history occurred in 2018, many years after my son had completed his education in the same neighborhood - at Carnegie Mellon University. Sustained by whatever Faith, that is our humanity: the Good, the Bad and the Ugly.

GS


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"IT'S A MATTER OF LIFE AND DEATH".

"Cutting Through Patient Denial: End-Of-Life Conversations", by Jules Murtha (MDLinx, November 4, 2021).

GS
Cutting through patient denial: End-of-life conversations
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FOR THOSE OF YOU VISITORS TO THIS WEB SITE WHO HAVE DONE SOME EXPLORING,
you might have found "Physician / Patient Spirituality" category.
This is perfectly natural for a Profession that had its origins in the ancient Priesthood of Genesis and then in Egypt.
I trust that my offerings in this section are of help to my patients and to others whose needs transcend my medical abilities.

In that vein I offer the following, both worth reading in toto and both based on the greatest Evil of any Time: Murder and in this case Abortion.
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FOR ALL PRACTISING CATHOLICS, FOR COULD-BE CHRISTIANS, AND FOR GOOD PEOPLE EVERYWHERE...

GS

Today, we celebrate All Saints’ Day. On this Solemnity, the Church remembers the saints in Heaven—those who are canonized as well as the countless unnamed saints.
 
Over the past year and a half, we have been adding new Seasons and Feasts pages to our website. Today, we hope that you will visit our All Saints’ Day online resource: ewtn.com/allsaints.
 
On this page, we have included many questions and answers about All Saints’ Day. We also have a free eBook, Comfort from Scripture and the Saints. Featuring beautiful photography from the EWTN Vatican Bureau, this eBook includes both Scripture passages and quotes from the saints that will remind you that God is with us through every trial. He is always at our side.
 
And as we celebrate All Saints’ Day, we can look to the Communion of Saints as examples for us in every situation.
•    When the Truth is unpopular, we can follow the example of St. Paul to speak the Word of God.
•    If our children fall away from the faith, we can ask St. Monica to intercede.
•    When we need strength in the face of adversity, we can look to the martyrs—such as Maximilian Kolbe, Perpetua, and Felicity.
•    As we grow in our faith, we can ask the Blessed Mother to always point us toward her Beloved Son.
Truly, we have many examples and intercessors who can assist us in our daily lives, and we should take advantage of their help.
 
While we are focusing on the wonderful Communion of Saints, we can also remember that God wants each one of us to become holier—and grow in love for Him—every day. Mother Angelica said, “God has something very special in mind for you. He wants you to be a saint.”
 
May you have a blessed All Saints’ Day.

Your EWTN Family

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FOR THOSE WHO DON'T TAKE AT LEAST THE WEEKLY OPPORTUNITY TO ATTEND HOLY MASS,

including its Readings from the Old and the New Testament and its Letters of the Apostles, 

there can be no greater gift than the following from The Lord himself.

A reading from the holy Gospel according to Mark.

"One of the scribes came to Jesus and asked him, 'Which is the first of all the commandments?' Jesus replied, 'The first is this: 

'Hear, O Israel!

The Lord our God is Lord alone!

You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart,

with all your soul, 

with all your mind,

 and with all your strength.'

The second is this: 

'You shall love your neighbor as yourself'.

There is no other commandment greater than these'.  The scribe said to him, 'Well said, teacher. You are right in saying, 'He is One and there is no other than he'. And 'to love him with all your heart, with all your understanding, with all your strength, and to love your neighbor as yourself' is worth more than all burnt offerings and sacrifices.' And when Jesus saw that he answered with understanding, he said to him, "You are not far from the kingdom of God.' And no one dared to ask him any more questions." 

The Gospel of the Lord. 

GS

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"IT IS PART OF THE DISCIPLINE OF GOD
TO MAKE HIS LOVED ONES PERFECT
THROUGH TRIAL AND SUFFERING.
ONLY BY CARRYING THE CROSS CAN ONE REACH THE
                        RESURECTION."

ARCHBISHOP FULTON J. SHEEN.

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WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE PRAY?

I dreamt that I went to Heaven and an angel was showing me around.   We walked side-by-side inside a large workroom filled with angels. My angel guide stopped in front of the first section and said, "This is the Receiving Section. Here, all petitions to God said in prayer are received."
 
I looked around in this area, and it was terribly busy with so many angels sorting out petitions written on voluminous paper sheets and scraps from people all over the world.
 
Then we moved on down a long corridor until we reached the second section.
 
The angel then said to me, "This is the Packaging and Delivery Section.   Here, the graces and blessings the people asked for are processed and delivered to the living persons who asked for them." I noticed again how busy it was there.   There were many angels working hard at that station, since so many blessings had been requested and were being packaged for delivery to Earth.
 
Finally, at the farthest end of the long corridor we stopped at the door of a very small station. To my great surprise, only one angel was seated there, idly doing nothing.   "This is the Acknowledgment Section," my angel friend quietly admitted to me.   He seemed embarrassed.     "How is it that there is no work going on here?" I asked.
 
"So sad," the angel sighed. "After people receive the blessings that they asked for, very few send back acknowledgments."
 
"How does one acknowledge God's blessings?  "I asked.
"Simple," the angel answered. Just say, "Thank you, Lord."
 
"What blessings should they acknowledge?" I asked.
 
"If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep, you are richer than 75% of   this world.     If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish, you are among the top 8% of the world's wealthy, and if you get this on your own computer, you are part of the 1% in the world who has that opportunity."
 
"If you woke up this morning with more health than  illness.. You are more blessed than the many who will not even survive this day."
 
"If you have never experienced the fear in battle, the loneliness of imprisonment,   the agony of torture, or the pangs of starvation...  You are ahead of 700 million people in the world."
 
"If you can attend a church without the fear of harassment, arrest, torture or death you are envied by, and more blessed than, three billion people in the world."
 
"If you can hold your head up and smile, you are not the norm, you're unique to all those in doubt and despair......."
 
"Ok," I said.   "What now? How can I start?"
 
The Angel said, "If you can read this message, you just received a double blessing in that someone was thinking of you as very special and you are  more blessed than over two billion people in the  world who cannot read at all."
 
Have a good day, count your blessings and, if you care to, pass this along to remind everyone else how blessed we all  are..........
   
ATTN: Acknowledge  Dept.
 
"Thank you Lord, for giving me the ability to share this message and for giving me so many wonderful people with whom to share it."
If you have read this far, and are thankful for all that you have been blessed with, how   can you not send it on?
 
Thank God for everything, especially all  your family and friends.

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"Pray as though everything depended on God. Work as though everything depended on you."
— St. Augustine

"Some beginners, too, make light of their faults, and at other times indulge in immoderate grief when they commit them. They thought themselves already saints, and so they become angry and impatient with themselves, which is another great imperfection. They also importune God to deliver them from their faults and imperfections, but it is only for the comfort of living in peace, unmolested by them, and not for God; they do not consider that, were He to deliver them, they would become, perhaps, prouder than ever."
— St. John of the Cross, p. 9

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GOD: ALWAYS WAS. ALWAYS WILL BE.
George A. Sprecace, M.D., J.D.

AND WHAT IS HEAVEN?

Here, read the great Homily offered many years ago by Rev. Joseph Castaldi, long-time Pastor of St. Joseph Parish in New London Connecticut. READ IT AND REJOICE!.

Father Castaldi and Heaven (PDF)

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IN A NATION AND A WORLD WHERE HUMAN LIFE IS INCREASINGLY DEVALUED, IGNORED, AND DESTROYED...
the following is a clear statement of the morals and ethics at stake, at the risk of one's own immortal soul.

GS

UK court says hospital can let child die, despite mother’s objections

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ENJOY!

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Truths (PDF)

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PAY IT FORWARD.

GS

"Let us love God, but with the strength of our arms, in the sweat of our brow."
— St. Vincent de Paul

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JANUARY 30, 2021
"In her voyage across the ocean of this world, the Church is like a great ship being pounded by the waves of life's different stresses. Our duty is not to abandon ship but to keep her on her course."
– St. Boniface

  MEDITATION OF THE DAY
"What is time, with regard to myself? It is my present and actual existence. Past time, or my past existence, is no longer anything, as far as I am concerned; I can neither recall it, nor change anything in it. The time to come, or my future existence, has not yet arrived, and perhaps never will arrive. I does not depend on me; I cannot count on it ... No one is ignorant of these two simple truths, but very few draw from them the conclusions they ought to draw ... This present moment, or this actual existence—from whom do I hold it? It is He who has preserved my existence from one instant to another, and who is preserving it at this present moment. Will He preserve it for me in the moment that shall immediately follow this one? I do not know; and nothing in the world can give me the assurance of it. Why has time been given to me? So that by it I may merit a happy eternity. I shall live forever: faith teaches me this; my reason even assures me of another life. The desire of immortality is implanted in the depths of my heart, and this desire, which God Himself has planted there, can never be frustrated of its object. I am, then, born for eternity, but this eternity will be happy or wretched ... My fate for all eternity depends, then, on the use I make of time, and since neither the past nor the future is in my own power, it is quite true to say that my eternity depends always on the present moment. Now, at this present moment, what is my state? Would I like to die just as I am now?"
— Fr. Jean Nicholas Grou, p. 82-83

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St. Augustine is "my kinda' guy".

GS

"What does love look like? It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has eyes to see misery and want. It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men. That is what love looks like."
– St. Augustine

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"The Cross is the way to Paradise, but only when it is borne willingly."
— St. Paul of the Cross

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Rapid Response for FRIDAY, January 1, 2021

RR#1

A HAPPY AND HEALTHY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL.

Now, what does that mean?
Now: LET'S GET ON WITH IT!
  1.  Pay it Forward. We all have received personal gifts in life...some more, some less. But we all have Something to offer to our fellow man, if only a smile or a greeting. Get those endorphins flowing!
  2. Do your part...for yourself and for others. The First Rule of Service is Survival. Remember to put that O2 mask on yourself before your child. Then Help!  Look in the mirror. Are you satisfied with what you see?
  3. Recognize and accept (subject to Prayer) what you have to work with: Human Nature, subject to the greatest Good and to the greatest Evil. But you also have Free Will. Use it for Good.
  4. Yes, there Is a Life beyond Human Life...and you have to Die to get there. Where? That's your Choice. Choose carefully.
  5. Choices have outcomes, for ourselves and for Society. As for Society and our Governance, I will always be loyal to the Founding and enduring principles of this nation. And I will fight for them.
  6. Personal Responsibility! What a concept. It begins with "choosing the right parents", the most important teachers. All other teachers have a moral and professional responsibility to teach Truths as well as the highest that humanity has to offer...and not to indoctrinate their students with distortions and falsehoods and with their own shortcomings.  Then comes each of us: Personal Responsibility!!
As St. Augustine, a very worldly Saint, said:
"PRAY AS IF IT ALL DEPENDS ON GOD.
WORK AS IF IT ALL DEPENDS ON YOU".

GS

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HERE IS A GOOD MOTTO TO LIVE BY:

"Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be".
Abraham Lincoln

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HERE IS A GREAT CHRISTMAS GIFT WHICH I'LL SHARE.
The Human Spirit, and God within it, LIVES.

GS

Home for the Holidays

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Rapid Response for SUNDAY, December 6, 2020

I CAN'T STOP LAUGHING. WHAT DO I DO NOW??

GS

CHURCH BULLETINS WITH TYPOS

The Fasting & Prayer Conference includes meals.
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Scouts are saving aluminum cans, bottles and other items to be recycled.
Proceeds will be used to cripple children.
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The sermon this morning: “The Lord Walks on the Water.”
The sermon tonight: “Searching for The Lord.”
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Ladies, don’t forget the rummage sale. It’s a chance to get rid of those things not worth keeping around the house. Bring your husbands.
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Don’t let worry kill you off — let the Church help.
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Miss Charlene Mason sang ‘I will not pass this way again,’ giving obvious pleasure to the congregation.
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For those of you who have children and don’t know it, we have a nursery downstairs.
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Next Thursday there will be try-outs for the choir. They need all the help they can get.
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Irving Benson and Jessie Carter were married on October 24 in the church.
So ends a friendship that began in their school days.
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A bean supper will be held on Tuesday evening in the church hall.
Music will follow.
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At the evening service tonight, the sermon topic will be ‘What Is Hell?’
Come early and listen to our choir practice.
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Eight new choir robes are currently needed due to the addition of several new members and to the deterioration of some older ones.
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Please place your donation in the envelope along with the deceased person you want remembered.
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The church will host an evening of fine dining, super entertainment and gracious hostility.
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Pot-luck supper Sunday at 5:00 PM, prayer and medication to follow.
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The ladies of the Church have cast off clothing of every kind.
They may be seen in the basement on Friday afternoon.
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This evening at 7 PM there will be a hymn singing in the park across from the Church. Bring a blanket and come prepared to sin. (the g was missing)
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The pastor would appreciate it if the ladies of the Congregation would lend him their electric girdles for the pancake breakfast next Sunday.
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Low Self-esteem Support Group will meet Thursday at 7 PM. Please use the back door.
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The eighth-graders will be presenting Shakespeare’s “Hamlet” in the Church basement Friday at 7 PM. The congregation is invited to attend this tragedy.
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Weight Watchers will meet at 7 PM at the Church hall. Please use large double door at the side entrance.
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And this one just about sums them all up:
The Associate Minister unveiled the church’s new campaign slogan last Sunday: ‘I Upped My Pledge — Up Yours.’

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Rapid Response for MONDAY, November 2, 2020

AMEN.

GS
 
FOR MY CHRISTIAN READERS, 3 ITEMS

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Why go to Church?
I think this is fantastic, I just love the guy's answer and the interpretation of the BIBLE. Enjoy and pass on.
If you're spiritually alive, you're going to love this.
If you're spiritually curious, there is still hope!

A Church goer wrote a letter to the editor of a newspaper and complained that it made no sense to go to church every Sunday.
He wrote: "I've gone for 30 years now, and in that time I have heard something like 3,000 sermons, but for the life of me, I can't remember a single one of them. So, I think I'm wasting my time, the preachers and priests are wasting theirs by giving sermons at all".

This started a real controversy in the "Letters to the Editor" column.
Much to the delight of the editor, it went on for weeks until someone wrote this clincher:

"I've been married for 30 years now.  In that time my wife has cooked some 32,000 meals.  But, for the life of me, I cannot recall the entire menu for a single one of those meals.
But I do know this:  They all nourished me and gave me the strength I needed to do my work.  If my wife had not given me these meals, I would be physically dead today.

Likewise, if I had not gone to church for nourishment, I would be spiritually dead today!"
When you are DOWN to nothing, God is UP to something!
Faith sees the invisible, believes the incredible & receives the impossible!
Thank God for our physical and our spiritual nourishment!

IF YOU CANNOT SEE GOD IN ALL, YOU CANNOT SEE GOD AT ALL!
B. I. B L. E.  simply means:  Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth!

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An atheist bookie was at the races playing the ponies and losing his shirt.
He noticed a Priest step out onto the track and blessed the forehead of one of the horses lining up for the 4th race.  Lo and behold, that horse - a long shot - won the race
Next race, as the horses lined up, the Priest stepped onto the track.
Sure enough, he blessed one of the horses.
The bookie made a beeline for a betting window and placed a small bet on the horse.  Again, even though it was another long shot, the horse won the race.
He collected his winnings and anxiously waited to see which horse the Priest would bless next.  He bet big on it, and it won.
As the races continued the Priest kept blessing horses, and each one ended up winning.
The bookie was elated.  He made a quick dash to the ATM, withdrew all his savings, and waited for the Priest's blessing that would tell him which horse to bet on.
True to his pattern, the Priest stepped onto the track for the last race and blessed the forehead of an old nag that was 100/1. This time the priest blessed the eyes, ears, and hooves of the old nag.  The bookie knew he had a winner and bet every cent he owned on the old nag.
He watched dumbfounded as the old nag pulled up and couldn't even finish the race.  In a state of shock, he went to the track area where the Priest was.
Confronting him, he demanded, 'Father! What happened?   All day long you blessed horses and they all won. Then in the last race, the horse you blessed never even had a chance.  Now, thanks to you, I've lost every cent of my savings!'
The Priest nodded wisely and with sympathy.
"You are not Catholic are you my son?"
"No, I'm an atheist"
"That's the problem", said the Priest,
 "you couldn't tell the difference between a blessing and last rites".

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Lord’s Prayer
By a 15-year-old school kid who got an A+ for this entry
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Now I sit me down in school
Where praying is against the rule
For this great nation under God
Finds mention of Him very odd
If scripture now the class recites,
It violates the Bill of Rights.
And anytime my head I bow
Becomes a Federal matter now
 
Our hair can be purple, orange or green,
That's no offense; it's a freedom scene.
The law is specific, the law is precise.
Prayers spoken aloud are a serious vice
 
For praying in a public hall
Might offend someone with no faith at all.
In silence alone we must meditate,
God's name is prohibited by the State.
 
We're allowed to cuss and dress like freaks,
And pierce our noses, tongues and cheeks.
They've outlawed guns, but FIRST the Bible.
To quote the Good Book makes me liable.
 
We can elect a pregnant Senior Queen,
And the 'unwed daddy,' our Senior King.
It's 'inappropriate' to teach right from wrong.
We're taught that such 'judgments' do not belong.
 
We can get our condoms and birth controls,
Study witchcraft, vampires and totem poles.
But the Ten Commandments are not allowed,
No word of God must reach this crowd.
 
It's scary here I must confess,
When chaos reigns the school's a mess.
So, Lord, this silent plea I make:
Should I be shot; My soul please take!
 
Amen

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"It is part of the discipline of God to make His loved ones perfect through trial and suffering. Only by carrying the Cross can one reach the Resurrection."
— Archbishop Fulton Sheen

"The heart cannot exist without love; it will love either God or creatures. If it does not love creatures, it certainly will love God. In order to become holy, we must therefore banish from our heart all that is not for God. When anyone came to the Fathers of the desert and desired to be received by them he was asked: 'Do you bring an empty heart that it may be filled by the Holy Ghost?' And they were right, for a heart that is filled with the things of earth has no room for the love of God. He who brings a vessel filled with earth to the spring will never be able to fill it with water until he empties it of the earth with which it is filled. How does it happen that so many pray and go frequently to Holy Communion and still make no considerable progress in the love of God? The reason is doubtless because the heart is full of self-esteem, of vanity, of self-will, and of attachment to creatures. He, therefore, who wishes to arrive at the perfect love of God must practice poverty in spirit. He must be detached from worldly possessions, from temporal honors, from his fellow creatures, and from himself."
— St. Alphonsus Liguori, p. 114-5

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"You can't go to heaven hating somebody. Forgive now. Be compassionate now. Be patient now. Be grateful now. Love Jesus and Mary now. Accept God's will now."
— Mother Angelica

"True devotion to Our Lady is interior; that is, it comes from the mind and the heart. It flows from the esteem we have for her, the high idea we have formed of her greatness, and the love which we have for her. It is tender; that is, full of confidence in her, like a child’s confidence in his loving mother ... It implores the aid of its good Mother at all times, in all places and above all things: in its doubts, that it may be enlightened; in its wanderings, that it may be brought into the right path; in its temptations, that it may be supported; in its weaknesses, that it may be strengthened; in its falls, that it may be lifted up; in its discouragements, that it may be cheered; in its scruples, that they may be taken away; in the crosses, toils and disappointments of life, that it may be consoled under them. In a word, in all the evils of body and mind, the soul ordinarily has recourse to Mary, without fear of annoying her or displeasing Jesus Christ."
— St. Louis De Montfort, p. 54

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"Faith and reason are like two wings on which the human spirit rises to the contemplation of truth; and God has placed in the human heart a desire to know the truth—in a word, to know himself—so that, by knowing and loving God, men and women may also come to the fullness of truth about themselves."
— Pope St. John Paul II

"We live in a fallen world. We must therefore work out our destiny under the conditions created by sin. Did we but realize this truth, we would accept each of life’s trying changes in the same spirit in which we accept the penance from the confessor. Were we truly convinced that our hope of pardon, and consequently our salvation, depends upon repentance, we would willingly undergo all the sufferings of life’s warfare."
— John A. Kane, p. 81

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But when he saw how strong the wind was he became frightened; and, beginning to sink, he cried out, “Lord, save me!” Immediately Jesus stretched out his hand and caught Peter. From today's Gospel, Mt 14:22-33.

When we read this gospel passage we often think of Peter's time of doubt and of the importance of having faith. We may also wonder, “Why would Peter not trust?” If we put ourselves in Peter’s place, in the middle of a storm, would we have remained calm? Maybe, maybe not. We are human, it’s not easy to have steadfast faith. In our lives, what are the storms that sometimes cause us to shake or fall? Yet have we noticed that no matter how many times we fall, Jesus is there to pick us up? Perhaps if we refocus our vision not on the way Peter doubted but on how Jesus did not fail him, we will be able to understand the role of Jesus as our Savior in a much deeper way.

This Sunday let us reflect on the gift of God's presence and of His desire to be with us. After Peter cried out "Lord, save me!" Jesus immediately stretched out His hand. He did not delay. He did not ask any questions; His response was without hesitation. This reminds us of how Jesus is always near and always wants to help us.  So much so that when we pray to God, it is because He inspires our desire to seek Him. He initiates, and salvation is being constantly offered to us.  However, it is in how we respond that we can truly find redemption. We must allow God to save us. What would have happened if Peter would have preferred to swim back on his own because of pride? Instead he recognized Jesus was the only one powerful enough to overcome the storm and save him.
Can we allow ourselves to be saved? How? The answer is prayer. It is through prayer that we can see Jesus coming to us in the midst of a storm. "The wonder of prayer is revealed beside the well where we come seeking water: there, Christ comes to meet every human being. It is he who first seeks us and asks us for a drink. Jesus thirsts; his asking arises from the depths of God's desire for us. Whether we realize it or not, prayer is the encounter of God's thirst with ours. God thirsts that we may thirst for him."  (CCC 2560)
Today, let’s allow ourselves to be saved. Let us not be afraid of the storms we are facing, in whatever form that storm may be. Let us remain at the expectation of our Lord coming to us, and when we see Him let us cry out like Peter, “Lord, save me!”

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Rapid Response for SUNDAY, September 27, 2020

LET'S TAKE STOCK OF OUR LIVES. THESE ARE THE FACTS. THEN:
1) Let's Thank God.
2) Let's "Pay It Forward".
3) For any worthwhile desires for the Future...
"Pray as if it all depends on God.
Work as if it all depends on yourself". (St. Augustine of Hippo).

GS

Lightning in a Jar


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"IF WE REALLY WANT TO LOVE, WE MUST LEARN TO FORGIVE".
St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta.

"THE TRUTH WILL MAKE YOU FREE".
The Lord.

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Rapid Response for WEDNESDAY, August 5, 2020

IN THESE TRYING TIMES, A GOOD PLAN FROM A WORLDLY SAINT.

"Pray like it all depends upon God.
Work like it all depends upon you".
St. Augustine of Hippo.

GS


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THANKS...I NEEDED THAT.

GS

Pope’s Angelus Address: Jesus Offers Prayer of Praise and Thanksgiving

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Fleeing from God

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Rapid Response for THURSDAY, April 23, 2020

RR#1

Thanks, I needed that.

GS

Ben & Jesus (MP4)

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Rapid Response for SATURDAY, April 11, 2020

RR#6



RR#7

How the Virus Tried to Steal Easter

by Kristi Bothur
(with a nod to Dr. Seuss)

Twas late in ‘19 when the virus began
Bringing chaos and fear to all people, each land.

People were sick, hospitals full,
Doctors overwhelmed, no one in school.

As winter gave way to the promise of spring,
The virus raged on, touching peasant and king.

People hid in their homes from the enemy unseen.
They YouTubed and Zoomed, social-distanced, and cleaned.

April approached and churches were closed.
“There won’t be an Easter,” the world supposed.

“There won’t be church services, and egg hunts are out.
No reason for new dresses when we can’t go about.”

Holy Week started, as bleak as the rest.
The world was focused on masks and on tests.

“Easter can’t happen this year,” it proclaimed.
“Online and at home, it just won’t be the same.”

Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, the days came and went.
The virus pressed on; it just would not relent.

The world woke Sunday and nothing had changed.
The virus still menaced, the people, estranged.

“Pooh pooh to the saints,” the world was grumbling.
“They’re finding out now that no Easter is coming.

“They’re just waking up! We know just what they’ll do!
Their mouths will hang open a minute or two,
And then all the saints will all cry boo-hoo.

“That noise,” said the world, “will be something to hear.”
So it paused and the world put a hand to its ear.

And it did hear a sound coming through all the skies.
It started down low, then it started to rise.

But the sound wasn’t depressed.
Why, this sound was triumphant!
It couldn’t be so!
But it grew with abundance!

The world stared around, popping its eyes.
Then it shook! What it saw was a shocking surprise!

Every saint in every nation, the tall and the small,
Was celebrating Jesus in spite of it all!

It hadn’t stopped Easter from coming! It came!
Somehow or other, it came just the same!

And the world with its life quite stuck in quarantine
Stood puzzling and puzzling.
“Just how can it be?”

“It came without bonnets, it came without bunnies,
It came without egg hunts, cantatas, or money.”

Then the world thought of something it hadn’t before.
“Maybe Easter,” it thought, “doesn’t come from a store.
Maybe Easter, perhaps, means a little bit more.”

And what happened then?
Well....the story’s not done.
What will YOU do?
Will you share with that one
Or two or more people needing hope in this night?
Will you share the source of your life in this fight?

The churches are empty - but so is the tomb,
And Jesus is victor over death, doom, and gloom.

So this year at Easter, let this be our prayer,
As the virus still rages all around, everywhere.

May the world see hope when it looks at God’s people.
May the world see the church is not a building or steeple.
May the world find Faith in Jesus’ death and resurrection,
May the world find Joy in a time of dejection.

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Rapid Response for FRIDAY, March 27, 2020

"WHY ARE YOU AFRAID? HAVE YOU NO FAITH?"

Regardless of one's Faith, these words and this Blessing should resonate among us all.

GS

Pope’s Urbi et Orbi Blessing in Light of Coronavirus

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Rapid Response for SATURDAY, March 21, 2020

Alright: I changed my mind, consistent with a little more time and with "a sense of proportion". Here is a different subject, which should resonate with all who have had a father...and even more with those who haven't.

Check out the book by Father Donald Calloway:
"Consecration to St. Joseph: The Wonders Of Our Spiritual Father".
But first read the excellent extended interview conducted with the author ("It Takes A Father", by Joseph Pronechen (in National Catholic Register, March 15, 2020, p5).

Whatever your Faith, and even for those without Faith: you won't be disappointed.

GS

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Rapid Response for FRIDAY, March 6, 2020

THIS IS ABOUT LIFE AND DEATH...AND ABOUT THE CHOICES WE MIGHT WANT TO CONSIDER.

I have a personal prayer:
"I Love You. I Trust You. Thy Will Be Done. I Am Yours."

I also believe that, consistent with that position, we can have a role to play in our last days...totally excluding euthanasia, physician - assisted suicide, and all suicide.

To clarify, I suggest you read three articles - and then discuss them with your spiritual advisor.
a) "MY FATHER'S PASSPORT", by Christine Hemp (in NYTimes Jan. 23, 2020). I believe that a rational and also spiritual choice might be made under such circumstances, consistent with "The Will Of God".
b) Google Search: "Billionaire Dead From Pancreatic Cancer".
Steve Jobs was unfortunately not rational in placing his treatment in delusions for too long a time.
See also the article about him and his wife (Laurene Powell Jobs) ( in NYTimes March 1, 2020, Sunday Business).
c) "PREPARING FOR A GOOD END OF LIFE", by Katy Butler (in WSJ Feb. 9-10, 2020, Review, pC1).

Then, having done the above: "Don't Worry...Be Happy!"

GS

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I LOVE YOU. I TRUST YOU. THY WILL BE DONE. I AM YOURS.

GS

Pope at Santa Marta: ‘Death Is An Encounter with the Lord’

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Rapid Response for THURSDAY, October 17, 2019


Things worth dying for: The nature of a life worth living

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Rapid Resposne for FRIDAY, October 11, 2019

THIS I BELIEVE.

GS

Does Religion Have a Place in Medicine?

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"IT IS FOOLISH AND WRONG TO MOURN THE MEN WHO DIED.
RATHER WE SHOULD THANK GOD THAT SUCH MEN LIVED."

General George PattonThese

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Rapid Response for SUNDAY, September 29, 2019


When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a nursing home in an Australian country town, it was believed that he had nothing left of any value.  Later, when the nurses were going through his meager possessions, they found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.  One nurse took her copy to Melbourne ..
The old man’s sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas editions of magazines around the country and appearing in mags for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.  And this old man, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this ‘anonymous’ poem winging across the Internet.
~ CRANKY OLD MAN ~
What do you see nurses? . . . . . .What do you see?
What are you thinking . . . when you’re looking at me?
A cranky old man, . . . . . .not very wise,
Uncertain of habit . . . . . . . . with faraway eyes?

Who dribbles his food . . . . . and makes no reply.
When you say in a loud voice . . .’I do wish you’d try!’
Who seems not to notice . . . the things that you do.
And forever is losing . . . . . . . . A sock or shoe?

Who, resisting or not . . . . lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding . . . . The long day to fill?
Is that what you’re thinking?. . . Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse . . . you’re not looking at me.

I’ll tell you who I am . . . . . As I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding, . . . . . as I eat at your will.
I’m a small child of Ten . . . . with a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters . . . . . who love one another.

A young boy of Sixteen . . . . . with wings on his feet.
Dreaming that soon now . . . . . a lover he’ll meet.
A groom soon at Twenty . . . . . my heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows . . . . . that I promised to keep.

At Twenty-Five, now . . . . . I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide . . . And a secure happy home.
A man of Thirty . . . . . . My young now grown fast,
Bound to each other . . . . . With ties that should last.

At Forty, my young sons . . . . . have grown and are gone,
But my woman is beside me . . . . to see I don’t mourn.
At Fifty, once more, . . . . Babies play ’round my knee,
Again, we know children . . . . My loved one and me.

Dark days are upon me . . . . My wife is now dead.
I look at the future . . . . . I shudder with dread.
For my young are all rearing . . . . young of their own.
And I think of the years . . . . . And the love that I’ve known.

I’m now an old man . . . . . . . and nature is cruel.
It’s jest to make old age . . . . . . . look like a fool.
The body, it crumbles . . . . . grace and vigour, depart.
There is now a stone . . . . . where I once had a heart.
But inside this old carcass . . . . . A young man still dwells,
And now and again . . . . . my battered heart swells.
I remember the joys . . . . . . I remember the pain.
And I’m loving and living . . . . . . . life over again.

I think of the years, all too few . . . . . gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact . . .  . . that nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people . . . . .. . . open and see.
Not a Cranky Old Man! - - Look closer . . . . see . . . ME ! ! !
Remember this poem when you next meet an older person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within . . . .

we will all, one day, be there, too!

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Rapid Response for SATURDAY, April 13, 2019

AN OFFERING FOR HOLY WEEK AND FOR PASSOVER.
"A classic episode of The Twilight Zone begins with a jewelry thief fleeing the police and getting shot. He is awakened in the afterlife by a man dressed in white, a 'guide' who assures him he has only one concern:
'Your comfort. My job is to see to it you get what you want - whatever it may be'. Incredulous, the shameless crook is soon wallowing in wealth, wine and women. Eventually, however, he becomes bored and argues there must have been some mistake. 'Look, I don't belong in heaven,' he says. 'I want to go to the other place'. The guide responds, 'Whatever gave you the idea you were in heaven'...This is the other place.'
In the episode's closing narrative, we're told, 'Now he has everything he's ever wanted - and he's going to have to live with it for eternity.'"
(From Editorial, Columbia magazine (Knights of Columbus) April 2019).

GS

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ABOUT THE RESURRECTION OF THE DEAD.

Saint Paul, Saul of Tarsus, born just a few years before Jesus, and originally a persecutor of Christians, became one of the most important Christians ever to have lived. As a tireless apologist for Jesus, His mission and His message, Saint Paul traveled widely, spoke and wrote prolifically, and did not suffer fools.
Here is his message on the above question, offered in his First Letter to the Corinthians.

"Brothers and sisters: If Christ is preached as raised from the dead, how can some among you say there is no resurrection of the dead? If the dead are not raised, neither has Christ been raised, and if Christ has not been raised, your faith is vain; you are still in your sins. Then those who have fallen asleep in Christ have perished. If for this life only we have hoped in Christ, we are the most pitiable people of all.
But now Christ has been raised from the dead, the firstfruits of those have fallen asleep."

GOT IT?

GS

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Rapid Response for SATURDAY, October 13, 2018

THIS IS FOR THE "OLDER FOLKS"...AND FOR ALL THOSE WHO WANNA BE.
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming: 'WOW!! WHAT A RIDE!"

GS

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WHETHER YOU ARE CATHOLIC OR NOT,

OR MORE EXACTLY JUDEO-CHRISTIAN,

you may be interested in this summary of "What Catholics Believe", by Matthew Walther (in the week.com).
And know that, even if you are not interested, we Christians are interested in you.

GS

What Catholics believe

Rapid Response for WEDNESDAY, June 27, 2018


Steve Jobs last words...

Whether accurate or not, good advice. 
 
 He died a billionaire at 56yrs of Pancreatic Cancer and here are his last words on the sick bed:

 "I reached the pinnacle of success in the business world. In others’ eyes my life is an epitome of success.

 However, aside from work, I have little joy. In the end, wealth is only a fact of life that I am accustomed to.

 At this moment, lying on the sick bed and recalling my whole life, I realize that all the recognition and
 wealth that I took so much pride in, have paled and become meaningless in the face of impending death.

 You can employ someone to drive the car for you, make money for you but you cannot have someone to bear the sickness for you.

 Material things lost can be found. But there is one thing that can never be found when it is lost – "Life".

 When a person goes into the operating room, he will realize that there is one book that he has yet to finish reading – "Book of Healthy Life".

 Whichever stage in life we are at right now, with time, we will face the day when the curtain comes down.

 Treasure Love for your family, love for your spouse, love for your friends...

 Treat yourself well. Cherish others.

 As we grow older, and hence wiser, we slowly realize that wearing a $300 or $30 watch - they both tell the same time...

 Whether we carry a $300 or $30 wallet/handbag - the amount of money inside is the same;

 Whether we drive a $150,000 car or a $30,000 car,  the road and distance is the same, and we get to the same destination.
 
 Whether we drink a bottle of $300 or $10 wine - the hangover is the same;

 Whether the house we live in is 300 or 3000 sq ft - loneliness is the same.

 You will realize, your true inner happiness does not come from the material things of this world.

 Whether you fly first or economy class, if the plane goes down - you go down with it...

 Therefore.. I hope you realize, when you have mates, buddies and old friends, brothers and sisters, who you chat with, laugh with, talk with, have sing songs with, talk about north-south-east-west or heaven and earth, .... That is true happiness!!

 Five Undeniable Facts of Life :
1. Don't educate your children to be rich. Educate them to be Happy. So when they grow up they will know the value of things not the price.

 2. Best awarded words in London ... "Eat your food as your medicines. Otherwise you have to eat medicines as your food."

 3. The One who loves you will never leave you for another because even if there are 100 reasons to give up he or she will find one reason to hold on.

 4. There is a big difference between a human being and being human.
Only a few really understand it.

 5. You are loved when you are born. You will be loved when you die. In between, You have to manage!

 NOTE: If you just want to Walk Fast, Walk Alone! But if you want to Walk Far, Walk Together!

 Six Best Doctors in the World
1. Sunlight
2. Rest
3. Exercise
4. Diet
5. Self Confidence and
6. Friends

 Maintain them in all stages of Life and enjoy a healthy life.

Rapid Response for MONDAY through WEDNESDAY, June 18 through 20, 2018

"THE WORST HUMAN PAIN."
"The distress of a grieving parent has been described as the worst human pain".
So begins an excellent article on 'the paradox of a child's death", by John M. De Figueiredo, M.D., Sc.D., Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at Yale University School of Medicine.
It is worth reading in full, by parents who have experienced this tragedy, by people who may then be better able to console others, and especially by physicians and other health care professionals - whose own "compassion, encouragement, and dedication, when balanced with personal attributes such as optimism, imperturbability, and equanimity, appear to guide their intellect to overcome the worst human pain by appealing to both reason and imagination and fostering a union to something larger than themselves."
(Connecticut Medicine, June - July, 2018, Volume 82, Number 6, p377).

GS

The Worst Human Pain

Rapid Response for SATURDAY, June 23, 2018

DO YOU KNOW WHEN HUMAN LIFE BEGINS?
"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you,
before you were born I dedicated you, a prophet to the nations I appointed you".
Jeremiah 1:4-10.

"Hear me, O coastlands,
listen, O distant peoples.
The Lord called me from birth,
from my mother's womb he gave me my name."
Isaiah 49:1-6.

ANY QUESTIONS?
"NOW GO, AND SIN NO MORE".

GS

Rapid Response for FRIDAY, June 8, 2018

RR#1

REALLY...

GS

The Back Nine

I FIRST STARTED READING THIS EMAIL & WAS READING FAST UNTIL I REACHED THE THIRD SENTENCE. I STOPPED AND STARTED OVER READING SLOWER AND THINKING ABOUT EVERY WORD. THIS EMAIL IS VERY THOUGHT PROVOKING. MAKES YOU STOP AND THINK.
READ SLOWLY!

You know ... Time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years. It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on my new life with my mate. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams.

But, here it is.. The back nine of my life and it catches me by surprise...How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth go?

I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that I was only on the first hole and the back nine was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like.

But, here it is...my friends are retired and getting grey...they move slower and I see an older person now. Some are in better and some worse shape than me...but, I see the great change....Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant..but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd become.

Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore... it's mandatory! Cause if I don't on my own free will... I just fall asleep where I sit!

And so...now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!! But, at least I know, that though I'm on the back nine, and I'm not sure how long it will last...this I know, that when it's over on this earth...it's over for here. A new and better adventure will begin!
Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done...things I should have done, but indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have done.
It's all in a lifetime.

So, if you're not on the back nine yet...let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly! Don't put things off too long!! Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether you're on the back nine or not!

You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life....so, live for today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember...and hope that they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!!

"Life" is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after. Make it a fantastic one.LIVE IT WELL! ENJOY TODAY! DO SOMETHING FUN! BE HAPPY ! HAVE A GREAT DAY ! Remember "It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver.
 
LASTLY, CONSIDER THIS:
~Your kids are becoming you.......but your grandchildren are perfect!
~Going out is good.. Coming home is better!
~You forget names.... But it's OK because some people forgot they even knew you!!!
~You realize you're never going to be really good at anything like golf.
~The things you used to care to do, you aren't as interested in anymore, but you really don't care that you aren't as interested.
~You sleep better on a lounge chair with the TV 'ON' than in bed. It's called "pre-sleep".
~You miss the days when everything worked with just an "ON" and "OFF" switch..
~You tend to use more 4 letter words ... "what?"..."when?"... ???
~You notice everything they sell in stores is "sleeveless"?!!!
~What used to be freckles are now liver spots.
~Everybody whispers.
~You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet.... 2 of which you will never wear.
 
~~~But Old is good in some things: Old Songs, Old movies, and best of all,OLD FRIENDS!!

Stay well, "OLD FRIEND!" Send this on to other "Old Friends!" and let them laugh in AGREEMENT!!! It's Not What You Gather, But What You Scatter That Tells What Kind Of Life You Have Lived.
 
TODAY IS THE OLDEST YOU'VE EVER BEEN; YET THE YOUNGEST YOU'LL EVER BE, SO ENJOY THIS DAY WHILE IT LASTS.

Rapid Response for MONDAY through WEDNESDAY, June 4 through 6, 2018

REGARDING "END OF LIFE" DECISIONS, BY PATIENT, FAMILY AND PHYSICIAN.
Without dealing with the entire question, the main issues here are considerations of : 1) Patient Right of Self-Determination, articulated when mentally competent, and reduced to an "Advanced Directive", accompanied by a "Power of Attorney for Medical Care" in the hands of a trusted family member or friend; a treating physician's right and obligation regarding not providing "Futile Care; the patient or family right to have the patient's care transferred to a different and accepting physician.
The critical point here is to take action in timely fashion, before a crisis develops.
A recent discussion of the subject may be found in the National Catholic Register, June 10, 2018, by Brian Fraga.

GS

Rapid Response for TUESDAY and WEDNESDAY, April 10 and 11, 2018

EXACTLY!
Today's world is God's punishment for Abortion.
FREE WILL IS NOT FREE.

GS

Petition to Pass the Dismemberment Abortion Ban Act (H.R. 1192)

Rapid Response for SATURDAY, March 31, 2018

HAPPY EASTER...NOW FROM A VERY HUMAN PERSPECTIVE.
Two articles in today's news draw attention to Life as it is today, after over 2,000 years of Jesus.
One is about the words of Pope Francis, laced with sadness, caution and also Hope and directed to peoples' Humanity and Free Will.
The other is an interview with David McCullough, arguably our time's greatest historian, emphasizing the lessons of History over "politics".
But the word "politics", from the Greek "politos", means "people".
And the author and philosopher Ralph Waldo Emerson made a very telling statement: "There is properly no History. There is only Biography".
The message here in considering the mean, craven and God-less times we now live in:
We are not "victims", bound by History and powerless before the Future.
We are persons "created in the image and likeness of God" and endowed with Free Will. What we do is what we choose to do; and the Outcome is Our Responsibility, and ours alone.
So: STOP WHINING, STOP WAITING...AND MAKE GOOD HAPPEN.
Create your own resurrection from the tomb in which we now find ourselves.
The Lord's own Resurrection has shown us that it can be done.
And ALWAYS HOPE.

GS

What’s Keeping David McCullough From Sleeping

Pope marks Good Friday amid tight security; urges people to rediscover shame

Rapid Response for WEDNESDAY, March 21, 2018

To LIFE!
Whether you believe in the hereafter or not, MAKE THIS ONE COUNT.

GS

Amazing Tress (PDF)



Pope Francis Addresses End of Life Issues

SOME GREAT HEALTH ADVICE FROM MOTHER TERESA.
"The greatest disease in the West today is not TB or Leprosy; it is being unwanted, unloved, and uncared for. We can cure physical diseases with medicine, but the only cure for loneliness, despair and hopelessness is love. There are many in the world who are dying for a piece of bread, but there are many more dying for a little love. The poverty in the West is a different kind of poverty. It is not only a poverty of loneliness but also of spirituality. There's a hunger for love, as there is a hunger for God."
From "A Simple Path".
SO: REACH OUT AND CARE ABOUT, CARE FOR AND HUG SOMEONE.

GS


A BREACH IN MORALITY IS LIKE A SERIOUS CANCER.

It easily and diffusely metastasizes.

GS

Boudewijn Chabot, “Worrisome Culture Shift in the Context of Self-Selected Death” (translation) - Trudolemmens.WordPress.com

Rapid Response for WEDNESDAY, June 7, 2017

"WHO DECIDES WHEN A PATIENT CAN'T?  STATUTES ON ALTERNATE DECISION MAKERS".
New England Journal of Medicine, April 23, 2017, p1478.

A few facts:
1) About 50% of a patient's health care costs are incurred in the last 6 months of his/her life.
2) Over 70% of people agree with the desirability of having a "Living Will / Advanced Directive" and a designated Health Care Advocate.
3) Only about 20% of people actually have taken these actions while they still can.
IF YOU WANT THE ABILITY, AT SOME POINT, TO SAY "STOP THE WORLD; I WANT TO GET OFF", YOU HAD BETTER GET OFF YOUR BUTT NOW!

GS

Rapid Response for FRIDAY, January 6, 2017

RR#1

FORGET THE "BUCKET LIST" AND THE BUCKET.
Empty it now - and keep it empty!

GS

AND THEN IT IS WINTER....
 
THIS IS RIGHT ON THE NOSE. .......READ IT SLOWLY... I DON'T KNOW WHO WROTE IT, BUT I AM GUESSING IT WAS A SENIOR!!! I FIRST STARTED READING THIS EMAIL & WAS READING FAST UNTIL I REACHED THE THIRD SENTENCE. I STOPPED AND STARTED OVER READING SLOWER AND THINKING ABOUT EVERY WORD. THIS EMAIL IS VERY THOUGHT-PROVOKING. MAKES YOU STOP AND THINK.

AND THEN IT IS WINTER
 
You know. . . time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years.
 
It seems just yesterday that I was young, and embarking on my new life. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams. But, here it is... the winter of my life and it catches me by surprise...How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth go?
 
I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that winter was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like. But, here it is...my friends are retired and getting grey...they move slower and I see an older person now. Some are in better and some worse shape than me...but, I see the great change...Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant...but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd be.
 
Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore... it's mandatory!  Cause if I don't on my own free will... I just fall asleep where I sit!
 
And so...now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!
 
But, at least I know, that though the winter has come, and I'm not sure how long it will last...this I know, that when it's over on this earth...it's NOT over. A new adventure will begin!
 
Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done...things I should have done, but indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have done. It's all in a lifetime.
 
So, if you're not in your winter yet...let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly! Don't put things off too long!
 
Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether this is your winter or not! You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life...so, live for today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember...and hope that they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!
 
"Life" is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after. Make it a fantastic one.
LIVE IT WELL! ENJOY TODAY! DO SOMETHING FUN! BE HAPPY! HAVE A GREAT DAY!
 
REMEMBER:....
"It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver.
"LIVE HAPPY IN THIS YEAR AND EVERY YEAR!
 
LASTLY, CONSIDER THE FOLLOWING:
TODAY IS THE OLDEST YOU'VE EVER BEEN, YET THE YOUNGEST YOU'LL EVER BE SO - ENJOY THIS DAY WHILE IT LASTS.
~Your kids are becoming you......
~Going out is good.. Coming home is better!
~You forget names.... But it's OK because other people forgot they even knew you!!!
~You realize you're never going to be really good at anything.... especially golf.
~The things you used to care to do, you no longer care to do, but you really do care that you don't care to do them anymore.
~You sleep better on a lounge chair with the TV blaring than in bed. It's called "pre-sleep".
~You miss the days when everything worked with just an "ON" and "OFF" switch.
~You tend to use more 4 letter words ... "what?".."when?"... "what?" . ???
~Now that you can afford expensive jewelry, it's not safe to wear it anywhere.
~You notice everything they sell in stores is "sleeveless"?!!!
~What used to be freckles are now liver spots.
~Everybody whispers.
~You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet.... 2 of which you will never wear.
~But Old is good in some things: Old Songs, Old movies, and best of all, OLD FRIENDS!!
 
Stay well, "OLD FRIEND.

It's Not What You Gather, But What You Scatter That Tells What Kind Of Life You Have Lived.

Pope at Audience: ‘Tears Can Generate Hope’ - Zenit.Org

Grief in Many Disguises - PsychCongress.Com

Pope Says He Keeps Track of Death Anniversaries as Reminder Time Is Passing - Zenit.Org

Pope’s new point man on life muses about death - CruxNow.Com

Rapid Response for
SATURDAY, August 22, 2015

ON ABORTION AND EUTHANASIA: 'Can You Hear Me Now?"

GS

20 years later...A look back at John Paul II's encyclical, Evangelium Vitae (Video) - Zenit.Org


Rapid Response for THURSDAY, August 6, 2015

FROM THE BEGINNING OF HUMAN LIFE AT CONCEPTION TO ITS END, IS THIS THE OTHER "SILENT HOLOCAUST"?

GS

Pope Francis: Medical Science Cannot Replace Family's Affection - Zenit.Org

Rapid Response for  SUNDAY, June 14, 2015

Celebrating Our 1st Christmas With Alzheimers Disease: Laughter Allowed -Zenit.Org

Rapid Response for  SATURDAY, March 28, 2015

NOW FOR A BRIEF BUT VITAL PHILOSOPHIC INTERLUDE:

"LIFE IS NOT A JOURNEY TO THE GRAVE
WITH THE INTENTION OF ARRIVING SAFELY
IN A PRETTY AND WELL PRESERVED BODY,
BUT RATHER TO SKID IN BROADSIDE,
THOROUGHLY USED UP, TOTALLY WORN OUT,
AND LOUDLY PROCLAIMING:
'WOW! WHAT A RIDE'"

(author unknown, but very wise)

Rapid Response for TUESDAY, March 3, 2015

A very large percentage of health care takes place in the last 6 months of a person's life. Is that what you want?

GS


No living will? What you must know about end of life documents - Yahoo! Finance

Rapid Response for SUNDAY, December 22, 2013

A BOOK REVIEW:

"Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon's Journey Into The Afterlife", by Eben Alexander, M.D., Simon and Schuster, 2012.

Herein is proof that Dr. Alexander experienced what he describes in great detail. Here is evidence that many others have had similar experiences, all related to the innate and generally unreachable powers of our brains. Here are demonstrations that such experiences can make believers in the Spirit out of the most barnacled among us.

But it is NOT "proof of Heaven".  That reality will have to await the culmination of what we were taught in first grade by the Nuns: that life should be all about Faith, Hope and Charity.  Faith that there is One Supreme Being creating and embracing all; Hope that each of us, individually, is held within that embrace; and Charity as our means of realizing that Hope.

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HEALTHY NEW YEAR.

GS


Hubble Telescope
, GS

For our analysis and discussion of many current ethical issues facing us, individually and as a society,

please refer to the offerings entitled "Point and Counterpoint", GS

The following is a recently published book that advances the basic premise of this section:
"SPIRITUALITY IN PATIENT CARE: WHY, HOW, WHEN, AND WHAT", by Harold G. Koenig, 2nd edition, Templeton Foundation Press, 2007.  ISBN-13:978-1-5994-7116-7.
GS

Rapid Response Posting for January 11, 2009, GS

Regarding "When Jesus Came To Harvard: making moral choices today", GS

St. Paul, the Apostle: The mortar for St. Peter's "Rock", GS

Spirituality, GS

More Relevant Offerings:

25th Annual White Mass Sermon, Deacon Gerald Shaw


There was a young woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and had been given three months to live. So, as she was getting her things 'in order,' she contacted her Pastor and had him come to her house to discuss certain aspects of her final wishes.

She told him which songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures she would like read, and what outfit she wanted to be buried in.

Everything was in order and the Pastor was preparing to leave when the young woman suddenly remembered something very important to her.

'There's one more thing,' she said excitedly..'

'What's that?' came the Pastor's reply.

'This is very important,' the young woman continued. 'I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand.'

The Pastor stood looking at the young woman, not knowing quite what to say.

'That surprises you, doesn't it?' the young woman asked.

'Well, to be honest, I'm puzzled by the request,' said the Pastor.

The young woman explained. 'My grandmother once told me this story, and from that time on I have always tried to pass along its message to those I love and those who are in need of encouragement. In all my years of attending socials and dinners, I always remember that when the dishes of the main course were being cleared, someone would inevitably lean over and say, 'Keep your fork.' It was my favorite part because I knew that something better was coming...like velvety chocolate cake or deep-dish apple pie. Something wonderful, and with substance!'

So, I just want people to see me there in that casket with a fork in my hand and I want them to wonder, 'What's with the fork?' Then I want you to tell them: 'Keep your fork...the best is yet to come.'

The Pastor's eyes welled up with tears of joy as he hugged the young woman good-bye. He knew this would be one of the last times he would see her before her death. But he also knew that the young woman had a better grasp of heaven than he did. She had a better grasp of what heaven would be like than many people twice her age, with twice as much experience and knowledge. She KNEW that something better was coming.

At the funeral people were walking by the young woman's casket and
 they saw the cloak she was wearing and the fork placed in her right hand. Over and over, the Pastor heard the question, 'What's with the fork?' And over and over he smiled.

During his message, the Pastor told the people of the conversation he had with the young woman shortly before she died. He also told them about the fork and about what it symbolized to her. He told the people how he could not stop thinking about the fork and told them that they probably would not be able to stop thinking about it either.

He was right. So the next time you reach down for your fork let it remind you, ever so gently, that the best is yet to come.
Friends are a very rare jewel . They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. Cherish the time you have, and the memories you share. Being friends with someone is not an opportunity, but a sweet responsibility.

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A NICE STORY...NEVER OLD.

As we were taught in first grade by the Nuns, life should be all about Faith, Hope and Charity: Faith that there is One Supreme Being creating and embracing all; Hope that each of us, individually, is held within that embrace; and Charity as our means of realizing that Hope.

GS

A little girl went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet.

She poured the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. Three
times, even.. The total had to be exactly perfect... No chance here for mistakes..

Carefully placing the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she
slipped out the back door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall's Drug Store with the big red Indian Chief sign above the door.

She waited patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention, but he was too busy at this moment.

Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat
with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good. Finally she took a
quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter.. That did it!

'And what do you want?' the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of
voice. I'm talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven't seen in ages,' he
said without waiting for a reply to his question.

'Well, I want to talk
to you about my brother,' Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone.. 'He's
really, really sick....and I want to buy a miracle.'

'I beg your pardon?' said the pharmacist.

'His name is Andrew and he has something bad growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now. So how much does a miracle cost?'

'We don't sell miracles here, little girl.  I'm sorry but I can't help you,' the pharmacist said, softening a little.

'Listen, I have the money to pay for it. If it isn't enough, I will get the rest. Just tell me how much it costs.'

The pharmacist's brother was a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl, 'What kind of a miracle does your brother need?'

' I don't know,' Tess replied with her eyes welling up. I just know he's really sick and Mommy says he needs an operation. But my Daddy can't pay for it, so I want to use my money..'

'How much do you have?' asked the man from  Chicago .

'One dollar and eleven cents,' Tess answered barely audible.
'And it's all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to.'

'Well, what a coincidence,' smiled the man. 'A dollar and eleven cents---the exact price of a miracle for little brothers.'

He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten and said 'Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents. Let's see if I have the miracle you need.'

That well-dressed man was Dr.  Carlton Armstrong, a surgeon,
specializing in neuro-surgery. The operation was completed free of charge and it
wasn't long until Andrew was home again and doing well.

Mom and Dad were happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place.

'That surgery,' her Mom whispered.. 'was a real miracle. I wonder how much it would have cost?'

Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a miracle cost...one dollar and eleven cents...plus the faith of a little child.

In our lives, we never know how many miracles we will need.
A miracle is not the suspension of natural law, but the operation of a higher law.

I know you'll keep the ball moving!

Here it goes. Throw it back to someone who means something to you!

A ball is a circle, no beginning, no end. It keeps us together like our Circle of Friends. But the treasure inside for you to see is the treasure of friendship you've granted to me.

Today I pass the friendship ball to you.

Pass it on to someone who is a friend to you.

MY OATH TO YOU...
When you are sad.....I will dry your tears.
When you are scared.....I will comfort your fears.
When you are worried.......I will give you hope.
When you are confused......I will help you cope.
And when you are lost...and can't see the light, I
shall be your beacon...shining ever so bright.
This is my oath.....I pledge till the end.
Why you may ask?....Because you're my friend.

Signed: GOD

On Life in Eternity - Zenit.Org


Dear brothers and sisters, hello!

This Sunday’s Gospel presents us Jesus contending with the Sadducees, who denied the resurrection. And it is precisely on this topic that they pose a question to Jesus to give him trouble and ridicule faith in the resurrection of the dead. They propose a hypothetical situation: “A woman had seven husbands, who died one after the other,” and they ask Jesus: “Whose wife will she be after her death?” Jesus, always meek and patient, first of all responds that life after death does not have the same parameters as life on earth. Eternal life is another life, in another dimension, where, among other things, there will be no marriage, which is linked to our existence in this world. The resurrected, Jesus says, will be like angels, and they will live in a different state that we cannot experience or imagine now. And this is how Jesus explains things.

But then Jesus, so to speak, launches a counterattack. And he does this by citing Sacred Scripture with a simplicity and an originality that fills us with admiration for our Master, the only Master! Jesus finds the proof of the resurrection in the episode about Moses and the burning bush (Exodus 3:1-6), where God reveals himself as the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. The name of God is connected to the men and women to which he binds himself, and this link is stronger than death. And we can also say of God’s relationship with us, with each one of us: He is our God! He is the God of each one of us! It is as if he bore our name. It pleases him to say it, and this is the covenant. This is why Jesus says: “God is not the God of the dead but of the living, because everyone lives for him” (Luke 20:38). And this is the decisive link, the fundamental covenant, the covenant with Jesus: he himself is the Covenant, he himself is the Life and the Resurrection because, with his crucified love, he overcame death. In Jesus, God gives us eternal life, he gives it to everyone, and thanks to him everyone has the hope of a life still more true than this one. The life that God prepares for us is not merely an embellishment of this present life: it transcends our imagination, because God continually awakens wonder in us with his love and with his mercy.

So, what will happen is precisely the contrary of what the Sadducees expected. It is not this life that illuminates eternity, the other life, the one that awaits us, but eternity – that life – that illuminates and gives hope to the earthly life of each one of us! If we look at things only with human eyes, we are brought to say that man’s journey runs from life to death. This is obvious! But this is only the case if we look at things with human eyes. Jesus stands this perspective on its head and says that our pilgrimage runs from death to life: to fullness of life! We are on a journey, on pilgrimage toward the fullness of life, and that life is what enlightens us on our journey! So, death is behind us, at our backs, not in front of us. Before us there is the God of the living, the God of the covenant, the God who bears my name, our name, as he said: “I am the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob,” also the God with my name, with your name, with your name..., with our name. God of the living! ... Before us is the final defeat of sin and death, the beginning of a new time of joy and of light without end. But already on this earth, in prayer, in the Sacraments, in fraternity, we meet Jesus and his love, and in this way we can have a foretaste of the risen life. Our experience of his love and his fidelity lights a fire in our heart and increases our faith in the resurrection. In fact, if God is faithful and loves, it cannot be for a limited time: fidelity is eternal, it cannot change. God’s love is eternal, it cannot change! It is not for a limited time: it is forever! And to go forward! He is faithful forever and he awaits us, each of us, he accompanies each of us with this eternal fidelity.

Lord Walk With Me, by Reverend Joseph Castaldi


And Then it is Winter


Rapid Response for
SATURDAY,
April 27 2013

PEACE. GS

Pope Francis: Prepare Your Hearts For the Heavenly Homeland


Cardinal Sean O'Malley Lauds Defeated Suicide Bill, ZENIT News Agency

When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a nursing home in an Australian country town, it was believed that he had nothing left of any value.
Later, when the nurses were going through his meagre possessions, They found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.

One nurse took her copy to Melbourne. The old man's sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas editions of magazines around the country and appearing in mags for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.

And this old man, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this 'anonymous' poem winging across the Internet.

> Cranky Old Man
>
> What do you see nurses? . . .. . .What do you see?
> What are you thinking .. . When you're looking at me?
> A cranky old man, . . . . . .not very wise,
> Uncertain of habit .. . . . . . . .. With faraway eyes?
> Who dribbles his food .. . ... . . And makes no reply.
> When you say in a loud voice . .'I do wish you'd try!'
> Who seems not to notice . . .the things that you do.
> And forever is losing . . . . . .. . . A sock or shoe?
> Who, resisting or not . . . ... Lets you do as you will,
> With bathing and feeding . . . .The long day to fill?
> Is that what you're thinking?. .Is that what you see?
> Then open your eyes, nurse .you're not looking at me.
> I'll tell you who I am . . . . .. As I sit here so still,
> As I do at your bidding, .. . . . As I eat at your will.
> I'm a small child of Ten . .with a father and mother,
> Brothers and sisters .. . . .. . Who love one another
> A young boy of Sixteen . . . .. With wings on his feet
> Dreaming that soon now . . .. . . A lover he'll meet.
> A groom soon at Twenty . . . ..my heart gives a leap.
> Remembering, the vows .. .. .that I promised to keep.
> At Twenty-Five, now . . . . .I have young of my own.
> Who need me to guide . . . And a secure happy home.
> A man of Thirty . .. . . . . My young now grown fast,
> Bound to each other . .  .. With ties that should last.
> At Forty, my young sons .. .have grown and are gone,
> But my woman is beside me . . To see I don't mourn.
> At Fifty, once more, .. ...Babies play 'round my knee,
> Again, we know children . . . . My loved one and me.
> Dark days are upon me . . . . My wife is now dead.
> I look at the future ... . . . . I shudder with dread.
> For my young are all rearing .. . . Young of their own.
> And I think of the years . . . And the love that I've known.
> I'm now an old man . . . . . . .. And nature is cruel.
> It's jest to make old age . . . . . . . Look like a fool.
> The body, it crumbles .. .. . Grace and vigour, depart.
> There is now a stone . . . Where I once had a heart.
> But inside this old carcass . . . . .A young man still dwells,
> And now and again . . . . . My battered heart swells
> I remember the joys . . . . .. . I remember the pain.
> And I'm loving and living . . . . . . . Life over again.
> I think of the years, all too few . . .. Gone too fast.
> And accept the stark fact . . . That nothing can last.
> So open your eyes, people .. . . . .. . . Open and see.
> Not a cranky old man.
> Look closer . . . . See .. .. . .. .... . ME!!

Remember this poem when you next meet an older person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within. We will all, one day, be there,  too!

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Do No Harm? Should Patients Still Trust Their Doctors?, ZENIT News Agency (w/ Intro. from GS)

Carrying Out End-of-Life Refusal Orders in a 'Culture of Refusal', ZENIT News Agency (w/ Intro. from GS)


Dealing with Death, ZENIT News Agency


Church Billboards

"THIS PIECE HAS A GREAT DEAL OF RELEVANCE TO THE LAITY AS WELL"

What's Right with the Catholic Church #57, GS

"When we walk with Jesus, we never walk alone", Rev. Joseph Castaldi


"Pope: Nothing to Fear About the Future", ZENIT News Agency


"Pope Offers Joy of Heaven", ZENIT News Agency

God's Rosebud, Unknown

Pontiff Notes What's New in New Commandment, Zenit

Michael Gartner Story, Michael Gartner

Gotta Love this Judge, Unknown

Just Stay, Unknown

What's Right with the Catholic Church #22, GS

Too Busy for a Friend, Unknown

Rick Warren Interview, Unknown

Aging, Unknown

Life After Death, Various

Where God Wants Me, Unknown

A Christmas Blessing
, Unknown

Forwarded Jokes, Unknown

The Power of Gratitude, ZENIT News Agency

The Language of Love, ZENIT News Agency

Cherokee Indian Legend, ZENIT News Agency

The Best of Everything, Unknown

Having Fear But Not Affraid, ZENIT News Agency

Two Glasses of Wine, Unknown

Devil, ZENIT News Agency

The Light of Death, Nancy Gibbs

The Wise Old Man
, Unknown

No Time to Wait in Accepting Death, Says Bishop, ZENIT News Agency

Irish Blessing, Unknown

Shout Christmas, Unknown

God in School, Unknown

Sea Prayer, Unknown

George Carlin Message, Unknown

Sand and Stone, Unknown

Jesus and Heaven, Rev. Joseph Castaldi

Three Holy Men & A Bear, Unknown

The Present, Unknown

Physicians View Religiosity as Factor in Patients' Health, Judith Groch, Senior Writer, MedPage Today
Father Cantalamessa on Calming the Storm, ZENIT News Agency

Document Deals With "Family and Procreation"; Echoes Teachings of "Humanae Vitae", ZENIT News Agency

Some of the mysteries of Fatima now revealed..., ZENIT News Agency

The Longer You Look, The More You See", Unknown
Pastor's Prayer, Joe Wright

"Love", Various

Bioethical Principles of Medical Practice Provided by the Linacre Institute of the Catholic Medical Association

"Here's a useful prescription from our Holy Father on how to deal with this materialistic 'mad, mad, world'."
Pope Warns Catholics Against Risks of Accumulating Material Riches

Famous Prayer, Reinhold Niebuhr

“Hope", Father James Keller, M.M.

“WHEN WE WALK WITH JESUS, WE NEVER WALK ALONE,”
Homily by Rev. Joseph Castaldi, Pastor of St. Joseph Parish, New London, CT, Sunday, July 6, 2003

The $20 Bill, Unknown

"Care for the Spirit," from Hospice of Southeastern Connecticut

Healer's Prayer

Prayer

HOW TO PLANT YOUR GARDEN FOR DAILY LIVING, (Author Unknown)

1) Plant three rows of peas: peace of mind, of heart and of soul.
2) Plant four rows of squash: squash gossip, indifference, grumbling, selfishness.
3) Plant four rows of lettuce: lettuce be faithful, be kind, be patient, really love one another.
4) Plant turnips: turnip for meetings, for service, to help one another.
5) Plant Thyme: thyme for each other, for family, for friends.

Water freely with patience and cultivate with love.  There is much fruit in your garden!  You reap what you sow.

"Life, long or short,
Is a journey towards Paradise;
There is our fatherland,
There is our real home;
There is our appointment!
Jesus is waiting for us
   In Paradise!
Never forget this supreme
and consoling truth."
        Pope John Paul 11 (June 14, 1979)
 

"We have just enough religion to make us hate, but not enough to make us love another."
        Jonathan Swift, "Thoughts on Various Subjects", from "Miscellanies" (1711)
 

"Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from religious conviction."
        Blaise Pascal,  Pensees, No. 894 (1670)
 

"I have learned...toleration from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind; yet strange I am ungrateful to those teachers."
        Kahlil Gibran, "Sand and Foam" (1926)
 

The following is a thought from Ronald Reagan:

"A young man whose father is a carpenter grows up working in his father's shop. He has no formal education. He owns no property of any kind. One day he puts down his tools and walks out of his father's shop. He starts preaching on street corners and in the nearby countryside. Walking from place to place preaching all the while even though he is in no way an ordained minister he never gets farther than an area perhaps 100 miles wide at the most. He does this for three years. Then he is arrested, tried and convicted. There is no court of appeal so he is executed at age 33 along with two common thieves. Those in charge of his execution roll dice to see who gets his clothing -- the only possessions he has. His family cannot afford a burial place so he is interred in a borrowed tomb. End of story?

No, this uneducated, propertyless young man who preached on street corners for only three years who left no written word has for 2000 years had a greater effect on the entire world than all the rulers, kings and emperors, all the conquerors, the generals and admirals, all the scholars, scientists and philosophers who ever lived -- all put together. How do we explain that?

...Unless he really was what he said he was."


The following is a reading from "Toilers of the Sea,"  by Victor Hugo:

"I am standing upon that foreshore.  A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean.  She is an object of  beauty and strength,  and I stand and watch her until at length she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come down to mingle with each other.  Then someone at my side says "There!  She's gone!"  "Gone where?"   "Gone from my sight, that's all."  She is just as large in mast and spar and hull as ever she was when she left my side; just as able to bear her load of living freight to the place of her destination.  Her diminished size is in me, not in her.  And just at that moment when someone at my side says "There!  She's gone!" there are other eyes watching her coming and other voices ready to take up the glad shout "Here she comes!"  And that is dying."
REMEMBERING
Go ahead and mention my child,
   The one that died, you know.
Don't worry about hurting me further.
   The depth of my pain doesn't show.
Don't worry about making me cry.
   I'm already crying inside.
Help me to heal by releasing
   The tears that I try to hide.
I'm hurt when you just keep silent,
   Pretending he didn't exist.
I'd rather you mention my child,
   Knowing that he has been missed.
You asked me how I was doing.
   I say "pretty good" or "fine".
But healing is something ongoing.
   I feel it will take a lifetime.

AMEN


A thought to live by:

"God does not call us to do great things, but to do small things with great love."
        Mother Teresa (1901 - 1997)


A Promise:

"Do not let your hearts be troubled.  Believe in God, Believe also in me.  In my Father's house there are many dwelling places.  If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you?  And if  I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also.  And you know the way to the place where I am going."  Thomas said to Him, "Lord, we do not know where you are going.  How can we know the way?"  Jesus said to him,  "I am the way, and the truth, and the life.  No one comes to the Father except through me."
        John 14:1-6

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